To become empowered, you must own yourself completely . Digging deep and gaining the courage and confidence with knowing how powerful you truly are is an exercise to learning what is unconsciously holding you back. I have learned ,over the years, what opens up your life and your business often entails relentless self – improvement, embracing paradigm changes and moving through obstacles. For example, one of my clients was so sick and tired of being sick and tired , he finally did something and turned his occupation and his life on the upswing. Here are 4 steps in which to begin:

Step one is  to get out of your own way and be careful how you might be projecting self to clients, co – workers , prospects and those closest to you. As the quality of our thoughts could lean in the other direction such as :

The Blame Game, The Victim Role, the Enabler, the Resister, the Not good enough, the I Can’t afford it,

and lastly, the Martyr.

Step two: The negative thought process can become  personality  traits where no accountability  for harnessing your power is in sight. When we choose to be void of the ego, our fear fades as do old default modes. This is when we become clear of our vision and recognize that our passion and purpose has more meaning when it is shared with others, from the heart. Imagine your business, home and life is exactly in sync, mentally, emotionally and financially. Capture that vision  as if it already happened , then work backwards. Visualization is a powerful technique and it works in miraculous ways, try it! It has worked for me and manifesting occurs in a much quicker manner.

Step Three: When business is slow take inventory of what is not working then  determine if your communication, target market or brand needs tweaking. Being the leader of your destiny is choosing to be a champion. Champions feel good about change. If your business is slow right now,  you are not selling or promoting enough , time to pick it up and be out there with your new, feel good offers.

Step four: Change your flow , you can leverage your flow by completing your to do list, finishing projects, getting rid of clutter in your mind and in your life, this includes; clutter in the home, people pulling you down and debt. Get rid of it and simplify! This action alone is a cleansing that your life requires from time to time   but most often hit the delay button. Set those new and improved boundries and take charge of creating a new flow into your life, where you are no longer paddling up stream.

Quote: If you can dream it, then you can achieve it. You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want. – Zig Zigler

Join me on a free teleseminar March 14th at 7 pm est: Hit the HAPPY Button on Your Business ! Market and Profit from the new strategies of happiness and well – being for financial success. Sign up and take a listen, this will also be recorded for those who are unable to attend.

Your call in link and information is HERE. Looking forward to imparting new and impactful information to boost you and your brand, to work less and earn more.

“America’s Happyologist” Jackie Ruka is a lifestyle expert and inspiration coach for women, who founded the Get Happy Zone ( personal development organization. She is also the author of the soon-to-be-released book, “Get Happy and Create a Kick Butt Life, a Toolbox for Rapidly Activating the Life You Desire.” Contact Jackie and take her Become Fearless Quiz online at


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